Friday, November 15, 2013
Negotiations
Negotiations
Negotiations can be stated as bargain for a particular
reason that can advantageous or disadvantageous for party/parties involved in
the negotiation. Harvard Law School (2013) defines negotiations as a
conversation between 2 or more disputed parties “who seek to find a solution to a common
problem, one that meets their needs and interests acceptably” (Harvard Law
School, 2013). It helps in people to come to agreements about conflicting
issues and resolve issues at hand. It’s an art that should be mastered in order
to obtain best outcomes.
Negotiation can be comprised of 3 elements as follows
1.
Process – the manner in which the parties negotiate. This
includes context, strategies used, parties involved, process where it’s played
out etc.
2.
Behaviors – describes the existing relationship among the
parties. This includes the communications between them, styles implemented etc.
3.
Substance – the reason that the negotiation is done about.
This includes the outline of issues, options available to arrive at solutions,
agreements made/can be made etc.
As stated by the lecturer, the outcome of negotiations can be
classified as win-win, win-lose, lose-win or lose-lose situations. Most
negotiation tend to end up either win-win or a win-lose situation as negotiation
is a way of helping both or at least 1 party to obtain a good outcome.
Negotiations are often mixed up with bargaining. Though the
two words carry almost similar meaning, Smoliar (2013) states that bargaining
is a win-lose and a competitive situation that determines who is right while
negotiation is a win-win situation which focuses on what is right. But
negotiations cannot be win-win situations and bargains cannot be win-lose
situations at all times. Therefore it can be seen that bargaining is a part of
negotiations.
According to Glaser (2005), a good negotiation ends up with 3
principles;
1.
It should be a wise agreement that satisfies both the parties
2.
Should be efficient
3.
Shouldn’t have conflicts and damage relationships between
parties
Glaser (2005) further states that a negotiation should focus
on 4 aspects; people, interests, options and criteria. When negotiating it’s
important to distinguish between parties involved and the problem at hand. There
shouldn’t be a mixture of emotions and personal issues. Logical thinking and analyzing
should be conducted always. Interest is another aspect that should focus on. When
negotiating it’s important to focus on interests of the people rather than
their positions. The parties should clearly outline their interest so it can
arrive for a common agreement. It is also important to generate a wide range of
options before settling into 1 so that the best option is being agreed upon. This
will help in avoiding win-lose or lose-lose situations immensely. Lastly objective
criteria should be used in event of conflict resolutions when there are
differences.
Types of
negotiations
Negotiations can be of 2 types, distributive/disruptive
negotiations and integrative negotiations. Distributive negotiations occur when
2 or more parties have conflicting ideas or needs and is unable to come to a
common decision. It’s a win-lose situation where one will definitely fail to
obtain the required outcome expected through a negotiation. Integrative
negotiations occur when parties engaged in negotiation are able to arrive at an
acceptable conclusion that will be favorable for both parties. It’s a win-win
situation where both parties gain a fair share of the outcome.
Class Activity
– Role Play
In
order to examine more into the above 2 types of negotiations, the lecturer
appointed 2 groups each with 3 students to act out a scenarios depicting the
above negotiation types. The group acting the disruptive negotiations enacted a
scene of a foreign couple taking a ride in a local trishaw for a distance of
2km, where the standard charges are around Rs.200, but the couple was charged for
Rs.1000. However much the couple argued, the driver refused to accept a lower
amount and in the end they end up paying the obscene large sum. The following
are some points that the author gathered based on the act
- · In disruptive negotiations, if 1 party is more knowledgeable in the situation than the other, it can be used against the other party. In the above scenario, the foreigner lacks knowledge in the standard charges while the driver knows this fact and took to his advantage
- · This type of negotiations can damage relationships between parties in the long run. Therefore this type usually occurs when the parties doesn’t have a future relationship among them (the foreigner will not be contacting that driver again)
- · Being thoroughly knowledgeable in the subject upon which the negotiation in taking place can help people to avoid disruptive negotiations
To depict
integrative negotiation, the group enacted a scene of a family dispute between
2 sisters after their father’s death, in the process of dividing the property
and valuables. Unable to come to a common agreement they decide to meet their
lawyer, who helps in dividing the items equally and as per their needs and
requirements. The following are some points that the author gathered based on
the act
- · Intervention of a 3rd party when necessary can help to maintain the neutrality of the negotiation thus preventing it to become disruptive
- · It’s important that the parties know what is really important to them and what they are willing to give up (1 sister wasn’t fond of the china set while the other were; hence the china was given up by 1 to the other). This can help in arriving at a favorable outcome.
- · As both parties gain positively through this type, long term relationships can be maintained
Personal styles
Then negotiating
it’s important to know how to control and use the way of negotiating styles
within a person. Individuals have varied styles and it’s important to
understand the style within you and to develop of control based on the negotiation
type and the situation at hand. The lecturer provided us with the following types
of personality styles that can be within a person.
·
Self-denying –
reluctant to give information or feedback, has hidden feelings. The downside
includes not being able to tell what is needed thus leading to confusion.
·
Self-protecting – use
diversions to evade your issues, doesn’t like talking about yourself, closed
person. Disadvantage of this is that the person cannot express what is needed
properly.
·
Self-exposing – center
of attention, demands what you want, and speaks out. Can become aggressive and
demanding which can be a disadvantage is certain situations
·
Self-bargaining – if
another person initiates the negotiations then will participate and go forward.
Sometimes situations that should be negotiated will pass on as that person will
not take lead to negotiate
·
Self-actualizing – this is the ideal situation that has a balance
of all the above characteristics
Apart from the above, Knepper (2013)
states the following as some personality traits that can exist;
|
Style
|
Pros
|
Cons
|
|
Dominance
|
Direct, independent, results oriented, strong willed
|
Can be rude or rough to others, insensitive, always needs
victory, rigid
|
|
Influence
|
Likes team work, optimistic, social, motivates others
|
Can be emotional or personal, doesn’t have a proper vision
about goals, too agreeable
|
|
Steadiness
|
Supportive, doesn’t like being center stage, try to avoid
conflicts, good listener
|
Less resistant for changes, uncomfortable in volunteering,
doesn’t perform well under duress
|
|
Conscientiousness
|
Cautious, like to be accurate, high in detail and planning
|
Wants perfection
despite the costs, needs validations to be happy, doesn’t like taking chance
|
Table 1 - Personality Traits (Knepper, 2013)
With the
consideration of different personality skills involved, negotiators can be
divided in to 2 distinct categories as soft negotiators and tough negotiators. The
following table shows a comparison between the 2 types.
|
Tough
negotiators
|
Soft
negotiators
|
|
Demands
openly and doesn’t budge from their solution or idea
|
Modest
and not over ambitious
|
|
Hard
on people and problem. Treats the other party as adversaries
|
Treat
the other party in a friendly manner and try to come to a peaceful agreement
|
|
Have
high expectations
|
Doesn’t
pressurize others but may yield to pressure
|
|
Doesn’t
trust others
|
Trusts
others
|
|
Not
scared deadlocks or threats
|
Avoids
deadlock and threats
|
|
Scared
of time constraints
|
Might
accept losses in order to come to agreements
|
|
Takes
more, gives less
|
Gives more than needed
|
Table 2 - Types of negotiators
(University of Utrecht, 2013)
Negotiating Styles
When conducting negotiations, there are different styles
that the negotiators use which are based on their personality traits. As stated
by Harvard Medical School (n. d) these styles can be categorized as Competing,
Collaborating, Compromising, Avoiding and Accommodating. The following diagram
depicts the characteristics of these styles.
Table 3 - Negotiating Styles (Harvard Medical School, n.
d)
In order to determine the students’ negotiating styles, the
lecturer provided a self-assessment which had a series of questions that was
given marks according to the answer that was selected and a score was given.
The author’s result of the assessment is as follows;
|
Style
|
Score
|
Interpretation
|
|
Competing
|
13
|
Low on competing style
|
|
Avoiding
|
16
|
Moderate to high in avoiding style
|
|
Collaborating
|
22
|
High on collaboration style
|
|
Accommodating
|
22
|
High on accommodating style
|
|
Compromising
|
20
|
High on compromising style
|
According to the above results it can be interpreted that
the author likes to negotiate in a manner that all parties are satisfied and a
positive outcome is obtained. It can be stated that the author is a soft
negotiator and tries to avoid conflicts. However based on personal experiences,
the author doesn’t entirely agree with the above results as the author tends to
display characteristics of tough negotiators most of the time. Hence in author isn’t
satisfied with the credibility of the self-assessment.
Guidelines for an
effective negotiation
It’s important to know certain acceptable and favorable ways
in conducting negotiations so as to avoid conflicts and arrive at contented
agreements. According to Weiss and Hughes (2010) the following are some points
to be considered in negotiations.
·
Be well prepared before a negotiation. It’s important
to have thorough background knowledge of the situation and the parties involved
and a structured process in hand as well as a steady and a disciplined composure
·
Create a corporative atmosphere for the parties
to be comfortable during the negotiation without distractions
·
Always listen well to the other party before
arriving at conclusions. It’s important to fully understand their need before
assuming anything and taking rash actions.
·
Gain the trust of the other party
·
Try to look at every possible outcome before
arriving at a final conclusion. Always try to seek for a win-win solution
·
Be mindful about what is needed and what you are
ready to give up. It helps in reducing conflict of interests
·
Try persuasion over pressurizing by backing up
your idea with logic and reasoned arguments.
BATNA (Best
Alternative To Negotiated Agreement)
This was introduced by Roger Fisher and Williams Ury which
states about the best possible outcome of a negotiation, even if it doesn’t satisfy
fully the intended outcome. It’s the best alternative when the other party
refuses negotiations or corporation. Similar to a backup plan, BATNA is an
option that can be compared with other options available so that both parties
will have a satisfactory outcome. BATNA helps to increase the bargaining power
and helps to have a level ground with the other party if it come to difficult
situations. (Spangler, 2012)
Spangler (2012) states that in order to determine a good
BATNA there are 3 aspects to be covered. Firstly a list of actions should be
compiled to be used in situations where an agreement is not reached. Next the
ideas and options that are generated should be improved so that they can be
converted to practical actions. Finally the best idea should be selected
wisely. A BATNA should be attractive as the other party will accept it based on
its attractiveness and the advantages to everyone.
Having a BATNA in a negotiation is a good approach in many
situations. It helps in having a backup plan ready if all others fail thus not
letting the negotiation to fail. Venter (2013) states that having a BATNA will
help to avoid situations where is high pressure to make agreements where there
will be fears of the expected outcome. It also helps to avoid the possibilities
of options being failed when negotiators gets over confident about their
options. BATNA helps in avoiding arriving at win-lose agreements and giving a
win-win outcome to parties in a negotiation. Hence it’s important that
companies should always be armed with a BATNA in event of negotiations.
In conclusion the author would like to state that it was a
highly useful topic that provided much information that the author was unaware
of. Specially the self-assessment provided an insight on how the author acts
during negotiations. It’s is important to know the correct way of negotiating,
specially within the industry where there are numerous instances will be
encountered. As a student studying BIT negotiations with customers is
inevitable and this was a great opportunity in learning the appropriate method
to deal with it. The author likes to improve her negotiation techniques so as
to become an effective negotiator in the future.
References
Glaser, T. 2005. Conflict Research Consortium BOOK SUMMARY : Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In. [online] Available at: http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/peace/example/fish7513.htm [Accessed: 12 Nov 2013].
Harvard Law School. 2013. Negotiation Skills. [online] Available at: http://www.pon.harvard.edu/category/daily/negotiation-skills-daily/ [Accessed: 12 Nov 2013].
Harvard Medical School. n.d. NEGOTIATION STYLES. [e-book] Boston: Harvard Medical School. Available through: http://hms.harvard.edu/sites/default/files/assets/Sites/Ombuds/files/HMS.HSDM_.HSPH_.NEGOTIATION.STYLES.WhenToUseWhichStyle.pdf [Accessed: 12 Nov 2013].
Knepper, M. 2013. How Personality Dimensions Effect Negotiating Style and Tone. [e-book] Ryba Associates, Inc.. Available through: http://www.neostc.org/download/January_2013_Program_Presentation_Slides.pdfMar [Accessed: 12 Nov 2013].
Smoliar, L. 2013. Stop Bargaining and Start Negotiating. [online] Available at: http://www.inc.com/laura-smoliar/the-difference-between-bargaining-and-negotiating.html [Accessed: 12 Nov 2013].
Spangler, B. 2012. Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement (BATNA) | Beyond Intractability. [online] Available at: http://www.beyondintractability.org/essay/batna [Accessed: 12 Nov 2013].
University Of Utrecht. 2004. Negotiations. [e-book] Utrecht: University of Utrecht. Available through: http://www.cs.uu.nl/docs/vakken/vm/college9.pdf [Accessed: 12 Nov 2013].
Venter, D. 2013. BATNA Explained | Negotiation Academy. [online] Available at: http://www.negotiationtraining.com.au/articles/next-best-option/ [Accessed: 12 Nov 2013].
Weiss, J. and Hughes, J. 2010. Implementing Strategies in Extreme Negotiations. [online] Available at: http://hbr.org/web/ideas-in-practice/implementing-strategies-in-extreme-negotiations [Accessed: 12 Nov 2013].
Friday, November 8, 2013
Goal Setting
Goal Setting
An idea of a person or a company of their future
plans/objectives and how they are going to achieve it can simply be called as
goal setting. It is a way of formally and constructively planning in order to
achieve the needed. Foster (2013) states that that “setting goals put you in
the driver’s seat”. This is due to the fact that it gives you control of your
life and to precisely accomplish targets in your life by avoiding obstructions
that might come in the way of achieving it.
Setting goals helps in making the present vision into a
future reality. They are done step-wise, by deciding on the goal then deciding
on the ways to achieve it by breaking it down to levels and finally working
towards the ultimate result.
As stated by Stanley (2013) and Mayland Community College
(2004), the following are some benefits of goal setting.
- · Transforms dreams/visions into a reality
- · Helps in maintaining focus and the direction in achieving the ultimate purpose
- · Reflects a person’s values as goals are guided by values and behaviors
- · Helps to be aware of ones strengths and weaknesses
- · Enhances and empowers the decision making capabilities
- · Increases motivation and give a purpose to do tasks
- · Helps to accept victory and defeat as one as well as to be responsible for one’s own actions
There are many ways that goals can be set. SMART goal
setting is one of the popular and effective methods of goal setting. The following
diagram depicts how to set SMART goals as stated by Extension (2008)
Figure 1 - SMART goals (Extension, 2008)
As shown above, in order to create SMART goals there are 5
areas that should be fulfilled. These goals can be further broken as short
term, medium term and long term goals. Extension (2008) stated describes short
term goals as goals that can be attained within a few days, weeks or months.
Medium term goals are achievable within months or a couple of years and long
term goals are achievable in more than 3-4 years. As requested by the lecturer,
the author listed down her goals as follows
- 1. Short term
ü
Find a project proposal by the end of November
ü
Obtain A grades for the 3 current modules
- 2. Medium term
ü
Obtain a 1st Class in completion of
the BIT Degree in year 2014 by maintaining grades above 13
ü
To get a new mobile by beginning of 2015 with
the author’s own money, the latest model at that time.
- 3. Long term
ü
Travel to Spain, Italy, France, Hawaii, Egypt
and Greece before 2020 in business class
ü
To own a 5 star restaurant by the age of 35
Mackenzie (2013) states that another method for effective
goal setting is GROW model. This helps in problem solving, generating good
decisions and learning new skills. The GROW model can be described as follows.
G
(Goal) – goals that are set, short or long term
R
(Reality) – asking question that helps to see reality and to improve self-awareness
O
(Option) – suggesting many options as possible which are creative and unique
W
(Will) – choosing the best option and how to embark on achieving through that
Learning about setting effective goals is important to
everyone. Though people doesn’t realize, goals are set all the time, every
minute every day. However small or big the goal is it’s important to know the
correct way of setting the goal and working towards it. The effective methods
that are used for goal setting should be learned and be applied when setting
one’s own goal as they will give a solid foundation and guidance in achieving
those goals. It helps in eliminating the risks of setting unrealistic and
unplanned goals. Therefor the author would like to conclude that it’s important
to have goals as persons or as an organization, and it’s more important to know
how to achieve those goals effectively and successfully.
References
Extension. 2008. What are SMART Goals?. [online] Available
at: http://www.extension.org/pages/11229/what-are-smart-goals#.Unz1bY2VOos
[Accessed: 4 Nov 2013].
Foster, B. 2013. 10
Steps to Successful Goal Setting. [online] Available at:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/bradley-foster/how-to-set-goals_b_3226083.html
[Accessed: 4 Nov 2013].
Mackenzie, B. 2013. Goal
Setting. [online] Available at: http://www.brianmac.co.uk/goals.htm
[Accessed: 4 Nov 2013].
Mayland Community College. 2004. Setting
goals for success. [e-book] Mayland Community College. Available through:
http://www.mayland.edu/aca111/GoalSetting.pdf [Accessed: 4 Nov 2013].
Stanley, C. 2013. The
Advantages of Goal Setting. [online] Available at:
http://www.christianpost.com/news/the-advantages-of-goal-setting-96016/
[Accessed: 4 Nov 2013].
Sunday, November 3, 2013
Time Management
Time Management
Time
management is an important aspect in a person’s life, knowing how to
effectively manage your time so that it will not be wasted and can obtain
maximum use of it. University of Illinois (2007) states that successful time
management means “accomplishing what is most
important for you”. In order to accomplish your goals successfully, one must
have ways of managing time. University of Illinois (2007) further states that
many people try to maintain methods that are not suitable or adaptable for
them. Techniques used can differ from person to person and it is important that
one should identify a suitable time management technique for themselves.
The
students were asked to state the various methods that are used by them to save
time in doing their daily activities and the following is a list of items that
was revealed.
Ø Having
phone reminders
Ø Creating
a to-do list
Ø Making
timetables
Ø Roughly
allocating times for the tasks due on a particular day
Ø Prioritizing
work
Apart
from the above ways given by the students the lecturer too added some methods
of saving time such as;
Ø Delegating
work when possible
Ø Start
the day with the hardest task and work towards the easiest or vice versa
Ø Not
accommodating unscheduled tasks (sudden parties, meetings etc.) unless it’s
absolutely necessary
Ø Multitasking
Ø Doing
urgent matters rather than important matters
University
of Pennsylvania (n. d) states that a major reason for poor time management is
procrastination. They propose a framework that can be used for effective time
management when doing tasks such as projects. It consists of the following 4
steps;
- 1. Preview – get an idea of the task at hand, what should be done etc.
- 2. Plan – make an orderly list of things that should be done in order to accomplish the task
- 3. Schedule –allocate rough time slots for various parts of the task
- 4. Get started – start the task in accordance with the first item needed to be completed
- 5. Get it done – when each step is done successfully congratulate yourself so that you will be motivated to continue effectively
There
are many techniques available to manage time effectively. Out of those, the
Eisenhower Matrix is a popular method of prioritizing the tasks to be
completed. According to Michalakidis (2013), the Eisenhower principle is
defined as “what is important is seldom urgent and what is urgent is seldom
important”. An important task helps to
achieve personal goals while an urgent task is often concerned about another’s
goal and needs immediate attention.
The
following figure displays how an Eisenhower matrix is drawn as stated by
Michalakidis (2013)
Figure 1
- Eisenhower matrix (Michalakidis, 2013)
The
students were asked to draw an Eisenhower matrix in accordance with the
activities that is scheduled to be done on the particular day. The author’s
Eisenhower matrix is shown below
|
|
Urgent
|
Not Urgent
|
|
Important
|
·
Do BDT home work
·
Attending lectures
|
·
Help a friend with the project
·
Make ARMPD blog
·
Find a FYP
·
Do chores at home
|
|
Not important
|
|
·
Watch a movie
|
Mind
Mapping is another way of managing time by evaluating the tasks at hand.
According to MindTools (2013), mind maps helps in effective learning, summarizing,
brainstorming, improving information recording methods, solving problems
creatively and to study/memorize information. It was popularized by Tony Buzan
and can help to simplify difficult tasks so that it can be easily understood
and accomplished. Mind maps can be hand drawn or computerized. There are
various software such as CMAP Tools, FreeMind etc. that can be used.
Illumine
Training (2013) has developed a basic structure for a mind map based on Tony
Buzan’s concept which uses images, colors and catch phrases/words.
Figure 2
- Mind Map structure (Illumine Training, 2013)
The
students were grouped into teams of four and were instructed to create a mind
map based on the activities of an Eisenhower matrix of a member of the group
depicting various activities to be done, the challenges that should be faced
when accomplishing the tasks and ways of overcoming them. The following diagram
is the mind map created by the author’s group
Figure 3 - Mind Map (Author, 2013)
Learning
about effective time management is important to students when engaging
projects, assignments, studying for exams etc. In future it is largely useful
when working in the industry, to achieve targets and objectives set by the
organization effectively. The author believes that it is important to learn
about time management techniques and compare and contrast them in order to
determine the best applicable technique to one’s life and the ability to
effectively manage time determines the success of the goals that is achieved by
a person.
References
Illumine Training. 2013. How to Make a Mind Map. [online] Available at: http://www.mind-mapping.co.uk/make-mind-map.htm [Accessed: 30 Oct 2013].
Michalakidis, G. 2013. The urgency/importance matrix – Focus on good time
management. [online]
Available at: http://www.clininf.eu/practicemanagement/managers-mentorship/134.html
[Accessed: 30 Oct 2013].
Mindtools. 2013. Mind Maps - Mind Mapping Training from MindTools.com. [online] Available at:
http://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newISS_01.htm [Accessed: 30 Oct 2013].
University Of Illinois. 2007. Counseling Center » Time Management. [online] Available at:
http://www.counselingcenter.illinois.edu/self-help-brochures/academic-difficulties/time-management/
[Accessed: 30 Oct 2013].
University Of Pennsylvania. n.d. One of These Days I’ll Stop Procrastinating. [e-book] Spruce Street: University of
Pennsylvania. Available through:
http://www.vpul.upenn.edu/lrc/lr/PDF/procrastination%20%28W%29.pdf [Accessed:
30 Oct 2013].
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