Negotiations
Negotiations can be stated as bargain for a particular
reason that can advantageous or disadvantageous for party/parties involved in
the negotiation. Harvard Law School (2013) defines negotiations as a
conversation between 2 or more disputed parties “who seek to find a solution to a common
problem, one that meets their needs and interests acceptably” (Harvard Law
School, 2013). It helps in people to come to agreements about conflicting
issues and resolve issues at hand. It’s an art that should be mastered in order
to obtain best outcomes.
Negotiation can be comprised of 3 elements as follows
1.
Process – the manner in which the parties negotiate. This
includes context, strategies used, parties involved, process where it’s played
out etc.
2.
Behaviors – describes the existing relationship among the
parties. This includes the communications between them, styles implemented etc.
3.
Substance – the reason that the negotiation is done about.
This includes the outline of issues, options available to arrive at solutions,
agreements made/can be made etc.
As stated by the lecturer, the outcome of negotiations can be
classified as win-win, win-lose, lose-win or lose-lose situations. Most
negotiation tend to end up either win-win or a win-lose situation as negotiation
is a way of helping both or at least 1 party to obtain a good outcome.
Negotiations are often mixed up with bargaining. Though the
two words carry almost similar meaning, Smoliar (2013) states that bargaining
is a win-lose and a competitive situation that determines who is right while
negotiation is a win-win situation which focuses on what is right. But
negotiations cannot be win-win situations and bargains cannot be win-lose
situations at all times. Therefore it can be seen that bargaining is a part of
negotiations.
According to Glaser (2005), a good negotiation ends up with 3
principles;
1.
It should be a wise agreement that satisfies both the parties
2.
Should be efficient
3.
Shouldn’t have conflicts and damage relationships between
parties
Glaser (2005) further states that a negotiation should focus
on 4 aspects; people, interests, options and criteria. When negotiating it’s
important to distinguish between parties involved and the problem at hand. There
shouldn’t be a mixture of emotions and personal issues. Logical thinking and analyzing
should be conducted always. Interest is another aspect that should focus on. When
negotiating it’s important to focus on interests of the people rather than
their positions. The parties should clearly outline their interest so it can
arrive for a common agreement. It is also important to generate a wide range of
options before settling into 1 so that the best option is being agreed upon. This
will help in avoiding win-lose or lose-lose situations immensely. Lastly objective
criteria should be used in event of conflict resolutions when there are
differences.
Types of
negotiations
Negotiations can be of 2 types, distributive/disruptive
negotiations and integrative negotiations. Distributive negotiations occur when
2 or more parties have conflicting ideas or needs and is unable to come to a
common decision. It’s a win-lose situation where one will definitely fail to
obtain the required outcome expected through a negotiation. Integrative
negotiations occur when parties engaged in negotiation are able to arrive at an
acceptable conclusion that will be favorable for both parties. It’s a win-win
situation where both parties gain a fair share of the outcome.
Class Activity
– Role Play
In
order to examine more into the above 2 types of negotiations, the lecturer
appointed 2 groups each with 3 students to act out a scenarios depicting the
above negotiation types. The group acting the disruptive negotiations enacted a
scene of a foreign couple taking a ride in a local trishaw for a distance of
2km, where the standard charges are around Rs.200, but the couple was charged for
Rs.1000. However much the couple argued, the driver refused to accept a lower
amount and in the end they end up paying the obscene large sum. The following
are some points that the author gathered based on the act
- · In disruptive negotiations, if 1 party is more knowledgeable in the situation than the other, it can be used against the other party. In the above scenario, the foreigner lacks knowledge in the standard charges while the driver knows this fact and took to his advantage
- · This type of negotiations can damage relationships between parties in the long run. Therefore this type usually occurs when the parties doesn’t have a future relationship among them (the foreigner will not be contacting that driver again)
- · Being thoroughly knowledgeable in the subject upon which the negotiation in taking place can help people to avoid disruptive negotiations
To depict
integrative negotiation, the group enacted a scene of a family dispute between
2 sisters after their father’s death, in the process of dividing the property
and valuables. Unable to come to a common agreement they decide to meet their
lawyer, who helps in dividing the items equally and as per their needs and
requirements. The following are some points that the author gathered based on
the act
- · Intervention of a 3rd party when necessary can help to maintain the neutrality of the negotiation thus preventing it to become disruptive
- · It’s important that the parties know what is really important to them and what they are willing to give up (1 sister wasn’t fond of the china set while the other were; hence the china was given up by 1 to the other). This can help in arriving at a favorable outcome.
- · As both parties gain positively through this type, long term relationships can be maintained
Personal styles
Then negotiating
it’s important to know how to control and use the way of negotiating styles
within a person. Individuals have varied styles and it’s important to
understand the style within you and to develop of control based on the negotiation
type and the situation at hand. The lecturer provided us with the following types
of personality styles that can be within a person.
·
Self-denying –
reluctant to give information or feedback, has hidden feelings. The downside
includes not being able to tell what is needed thus leading to confusion.
·
Self-protecting – use
diversions to evade your issues, doesn’t like talking about yourself, closed
person. Disadvantage of this is that the person cannot express what is needed
properly.
·
Self-exposing – center
of attention, demands what you want, and speaks out. Can become aggressive and
demanding which can be a disadvantage is certain situations
·
Self-bargaining – if
another person initiates the negotiations then will participate and go forward.
Sometimes situations that should be negotiated will pass on as that person will
not take lead to negotiate
·
Self-actualizing – this is the ideal situation that has a balance
of all the above characteristics
Apart from the above, Knepper (2013)
states the following as some personality traits that can exist;
|
Style
|
Pros
|
Cons
|
|
Dominance
|
Direct, independent, results oriented, strong willed
|
Can be rude or rough to others, insensitive, always needs
victory, rigid
|
|
Influence
|
Likes team work, optimistic, social, motivates others
|
Can be emotional or personal, doesn’t have a proper vision
about goals, too agreeable
|
|
Steadiness
|
Supportive, doesn’t like being center stage, try to avoid
conflicts, good listener
|
Less resistant for changes, uncomfortable in volunteering,
doesn’t perform well under duress
|
|
Conscientiousness
|
Cautious, like to be accurate, high in detail and planning
|
Wants perfection
despite the costs, needs validations to be happy, doesn’t like taking chance
|
Table 1 - Personality Traits (Knepper, 2013)
With the
consideration of different personality skills involved, negotiators can be
divided in to 2 distinct categories as soft negotiators and tough negotiators. The
following table shows a comparison between the 2 types.
|
Tough
negotiators
|
Soft
negotiators
|
|
Demands
openly and doesn’t budge from their solution or idea
|
Modest
and not over ambitious
|
|
Hard
on people and problem. Treats the other party as adversaries
|
Treat
the other party in a friendly manner and try to come to a peaceful agreement
|
|
Have
high expectations
|
Doesn’t
pressurize others but may yield to pressure
|
|
Doesn’t
trust others
|
Trusts
others
|
|
Not
scared deadlocks or threats
|
Avoids
deadlock and threats
|
|
Scared
of time constraints
|
Might
accept losses in order to come to agreements
|
|
Takes
more, gives less
|
Gives more than needed
|
Table 2 - Types of negotiators
(University of Utrecht, 2013)
Negotiating Styles
When conducting negotiations, there are different styles
that the negotiators use which are based on their personality traits. As stated
by Harvard Medical School (n. d) these styles can be categorized as Competing,
Collaborating, Compromising, Avoiding and Accommodating. The following diagram
depicts the characteristics of these styles.
Table 3 - Negotiating Styles (Harvard Medical School, n.
d)
In order to determine the students’ negotiating styles, the
lecturer provided a self-assessment which had a series of questions that was
given marks according to the answer that was selected and a score was given.
The author’s result of the assessment is as follows;
|
Style
|
Score
|
Interpretation
|
|
Competing
|
13
|
Low on competing style
|
|
Avoiding
|
16
|
Moderate to high in avoiding style
|
|
Collaborating
|
22
|
High on collaboration style
|
|
Accommodating
|
22
|
High on accommodating style
|
|
Compromising
|
20
|
High on compromising style
|
According to the above results it can be interpreted that
the author likes to negotiate in a manner that all parties are satisfied and a
positive outcome is obtained. It can be stated that the author is a soft
negotiator and tries to avoid conflicts. However based on personal experiences,
the author doesn’t entirely agree with the above results as the author tends to
display characteristics of tough negotiators most of the time. Hence in author isn’t
satisfied with the credibility of the self-assessment.
Guidelines for an
effective negotiation
It’s important to know certain acceptable and favorable ways
in conducting negotiations so as to avoid conflicts and arrive at contented
agreements. According to Weiss and Hughes (2010) the following are some points
to be considered in negotiations.
·
Be well prepared before a negotiation. It’s important
to have thorough background knowledge of the situation and the parties involved
and a structured process in hand as well as a steady and a disciplined composure
·
Create a corporative atmosphere for the parties
to be comfortable during the negotiation without distractions
·
Always listen well to the other party before
arriving at conclusions. It’s important to fully understand their need before
assuming anything and taking rash actions.
·
Gain the trust of the other party
·
Try to look at every possible outcome before
arriving at a final conclusion. Always try to seek for a win-win solution
·
Be mindful about what is needed and what you are
ready to give up. It helps in reducing conflict of interests
·
Try persuasion over pressurizing by backing up
your idea with logic and reasoned arguments.
BATNA (Best
Alternative To Negotiated Agreement)
This was introduced by Roger Fisher and Williams Ury which
states about the best possible outcome of a negotiation, even if it doesn’t satisfy
fully the intended outcome. It’s the best alternative when the other party
refuses negotiations or corporation. Similar to a backup plan, BATNA is an
option that can be compared with other options available so that both parties
will have a satisfactory outcome. BATNA helps to increase the bargaining power
and helps to have a level ground with the other party if it come to difficult
situations. (Spangler, 2012)
Spangler (2012) states that in order to determine a good
BATNA there are 3 aspects to be covered. Firstly a list of actions should be
compiled to be used in situations where an agreement is not reached. Next the
ideas and options that are generated should be improved so that they can be
converted to practical actions. Finally the best idea should be selected
wisely. A BATNA should be attractive as the other party will accept it based on
its attractiveness and the advantages to everyone.
Having a BATNA in a negotiation is a good approach in many
situations. It helps in having a backup plan ready if all others fail thus not
letting the negotiation to fail. Venter (2013) states that having a BATNA will
help to avoid situations where is high pressure to make agreements where there
will be fears of the expected outcome. It also helps to avoid the possibilities
of options being failed when negotiators gets over confident about their
options. BATNA helps in avoiding arriving at win-lose agreements and giving a
win-win outcome to parties in a negotiation. Hence it’s important that
companies should always be armed with a BATNA in event of negotiations.
In conclusion the author would like to state that it was a
highly useful topic that provided much information that the author was unaware
of. Specially the self-assessment provided an insight on how the author acts
during negotiations. It’s is important to know the correct way of negotiating,
specially within the industry where there are numerous instances will be
encountered. As a student studying BIT negotiations with customers is
inevitable and this was a great opportunity in learning the appropriate method
to deal with it. The author likes to improve her negotiation techniques so as
to become an effective negotiator in the future.
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